Six ways to improve ourselves

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Keep growing.

Instead of standing in the abyss and envying fish, it is better to retreat and build a net.

What is more meaningful than looking up to others is to improve yourself.

Six tips to help us continue to grow.

Set clear goals

There is a saying that describes it well: A life without goals is a puzzle, but a life with goals is the blueprint.

Targets are like navigation lights. A clear goal will stimulate a person's imagination and enthusiasm and illuminate the way forward.

Rather than wandering aimlessly, it is better to set some clear small goals. You will work hard for them and arrange your work and life in an orderly manner.

Practice expression skills

Clear expression and effective communication are the basic elements of harmonious interpersonal relationships.

If you want to talk about a topic with someone, you might as well try to sort out the key words before speaking and sort out a smooth logic. Learn to control your speaking speed during conversations and respond appropriately.

Keep your eyes firm and talk to people with a smile. The way you speak is the way you behave.

Start reading and keep reading

There are always people complaining that with the accelerated pace of life nowadays, there is no time to calm down and read.

In fact, you can try to make use of the fragmented time and read every opportunity. When you wake up in the morning, spend five minutes listening to an article; on the way to work, take advantage of the break to read a few pages; before going to bed, read some more books. The superposition of several fragments of time will eventually make you gain something. 

Never be afraid of being late when studying, just afraid that you won’t do it.

Create your own action list

Whatever you do, you must learn to be targeted. Plan everything in advance and make directed efforts to achieve your goals more easily.

Make a to-do list every day, preferably in order of priority. Try to finish the things for the day on that day and don’t push it to tomorrow.

As one thing is completed, we will become more and more motivated to do things, and our efficiency will become higher and higher. 

Polish the "glass heart" into a "diamond heart"

Life is not always smooth sailing. The attitude towards adversity determines a person's height.

When you encounter setbacks, don't give up easily. When you survive adversity, you will find that you are stronger than you thought.

Growth is a process of slowly grinding a "glass heart" into a "diamond heart". When faced with a problem, calm down for three minutes before speaking, and work hard to practice your skills. When you have irreplaceable abilities, you have more choices.

Turn dependence into initiative

We all have times when we are at a loss. It is normal to seek support. However, if we follow the same pace in everything, we will only lose our original intention and achieve nothing.

If you can learn to appreciate the achievements of others with a straight eye and seek support from others with an open mind, you will likely open up a new world in your cooperation with others.

If you can learn other people's wisdom in dealing with things and at the same time digest it into your own logic, integrate information efficiently, and develop learning abilities, you will have a stronger grasp of the initiative in your life.